I tuned out at "people with vaginas" and got totally lost around "context of disabilities, ...etc.".
Great retort by an earlier poster about the author's guilt over "lack of lack" - just totally nailed it. Earth to New Yorkers...it's just fine to be male, even better to be a strong male, and best to be a strong male that doesn't need the validation of others or a politically correct handwringing session before reaching self assurance.
And then, on my cell phone anyways, the next article was this great read: The Strongest Man in the World - The New Yorker
Very refreshing! There is hope for New Yorkers.