I was just reading your post looking for a coach to help with your lifting. Not sure if I am what you are looking for but might be willing to help you out if needed. It isn't something I mention and don't plan to on SS, but I've taught weight training to a few thousand lifters, from high school to some college athletes and also older lifters too. Form problems can be worked out and relearned pretty easily.
You are quite a distance from me, I'm about 90 minutes South of you but I do have a Daughter and Grandkids in Olympia that I visit quite a lot.
Let me know.