In my experiences with a wide range of women with different morals, levels of social aptitude, attractiveness, intelligence, and relationship status i've learned that only one thing is true. Given the right set of circumstances any woman will have sex with any man (as any man will have sex with any woman), and that if you are charming enough, it doesn't matter what you look like, SHE WILL CHEAT
I get pissed at for leaving early to go to the gym at my job. I work 12hr shifts so this pisses her off, a lot. Get old "You put your workouts before your wife" kind of shit. And mine is very jealous, very. So anyting that involves looking at another specimem gets me in trouble. Insecurities and jealousy are the two things that I fear will fuck up my marriage. She doesn't understand the importance for me to lift and get healthy. I wanted to get ripped, but thanks to Carlos, switched to SS. I get pissed at for no reason sometimes. Literally, no reason.
Luckily I take it out on the bar.
Call me crazy but I think some women are not comfortable with there men being in great shape. My wife will ask me if I want diner and I'll
say no but she will cook for two and leave the food out knowing that I'll gulp it down. She will put 8 cookies on a plate and leave them
out all day long knowing that I will eat them and on and on. I think it's some sort of way of protecting there turf or something like that.
I'm 6.2, 215 pounds and my lifts are hovering above novice and people say I look "Big and Solid" but not fat. To be kinda ripped would
take 200 or so but I dont think my wife would be happy to see me there and she will take active steps to prevent this from happening.
(when I met her on the beach I was 185 prior to Starting Strength)
Last edited by hunter308; 04-25-2012 at 04:25 AM.
as a single 22 year old can anyone give me some advice on girls and relationships?
Have the balls to be yourself and remember women respect a guy who has the courage to walk up to them and introduce
themselves, you have nothing to loose from this and you can only gain. Based on my experience the right women only
shows up every 7 - 10 years, so when you find the right one hang in there.
due to some history in my family, i will not cheat. i won't do it in general, but my father fucked up our family with some heavy fucked up shit. i know what it does to someone, especially kids. she knows what happened but still think i'll cheat on her. now i just ignore it. if we fight, i fuck off tothe gym and squat. i used to a pussy but now if she won't get with the program i'll be off.
don't be beta. there are millions of women in this world. if one hot chick looks at you, act like she doesn't matter. women are replacable. it's cruel to say but it's true. if they give you too much tell to piss off. i'm married unfortunately. hahaha. but shit can only go on for so long before anyone will bail out. we're young so i'm giving her time to grow and us to grow.as a single 22 year old can anyone give me some advice on girls and relationships?
hahaha. i use to be that guy. be like a fucking lap dog and shit. when i changed my life around, she started to feel "unstable". it's awesome being in control. it makes her crazy when i don't respond to her silly bullshit. and that eventually turns into some nice hot sex. i told her numerous times i'll leave if she continues to be a little 5yr old. then she cries, then sex. weird.This is the kind of stuff I'm very happy not to have in my relationship and the main reason why we and my girlfriend don't fight. The few instances my girl came up with this kind of shit my reaction was "you don't get to distrust me, I've never given you any sort of reason to do so and to think otherwise is insulting. Stop it now.". If she's insecure it's "You're pretty much the most important person in my life and to think otherwise is insulting. Stop it now.". I also don't cave in to bullshit, for instance if she starts giving me shit for something for whichshit is not deserved, instead of putting my head down and saying I'm sorry, I'd tell her to fuck off.
Done get me wrong. I love my GF and id kill any one of you that even looked at her wrong. But, and its a big but, there is rational and irrational reactions to events. If I text a girl and it accidentally comes across as a bit flirty (even if the girl is ugly as a stick) and the GF gets upset I apologise, without question, fairs fair i made a mistake and she is understandably upset. But I explain myself and never let it go beyond that. If she starts getting really riled up and making it more than it is, or she accepts my apology and tries to bring it up later. Hell no, stop that right there or they will eat you alive.
Furthermore if she is being plain irrational and complains that "you dont buy me flowers like so and so's BF does", or accusing me of things I havent done and just being incredibly jealous; that is stopped right there as Carlos says above. Also i have more control in our relationship as I am totally immune to jealousy. I have the motto that: if she wants me then good. However if she wants to sleep with other guys then being jealous will only delay the inevitable, so tell her to go fuck herself, she obviously isnt the one for you.
Be a man, but more than that, if one of your best mates acted like that you'd tell him to fuck off. Same rules should apply... but back rubs and make-up sex only with the GF.