
Originally Posted by
TBone
Except that this isn't true. It depends on how the person defines "muscular" or "bulky" or whatever term the idiots who started Strong is the New Skinny are currently using.
Plenty of women thought that I was "too muscular" when I weighed 132 lbs, and plenty of women think I am "too bulky" now at 165 lbs. Anything outside of the supermodel thin ideal is too muscular for many women. It doesn't mean that the "muscular" girl in question has to look like a bodybuilder. I have a 48 kg lifter whose mother told her she was going to look funny in a bikini this summer because she is getting too bulky and manly. THE WOMAN WEIGHS 48 KG.
I think it is more important to tell the truth, which is that genetics and diet play a HUGE role along with weight training in terms of how your body will look.
Look, I totally agree with this.
And, those are the women who think I am fucking obese at 165 lbs. Those are the women who probably don't come to my gym in the first place because I don't have an elliptical rider or a treadmill for them.
But, I have found that even the women with smaller hang ups about body image (and I do think most women have those hang ups) slowly start enjoying the addition of weight on the bar more and more and ignoring the number on the scale more and more if you put them in a COMPETITIVE environment. There is something to be said for bragging rights. Women like to one up other women, just like men like to one up each other. I guarantee you that most of the women at my gym are very conscious of what everyone else is squatting, snatching, and cleaning and jerking. No one wants to be the weakest.
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