Okay I just caught up. Okay so marriage is still the endgame here like I said last time, but let's flesh this out a bit - make a move at some point when it's good, which sounds like it happens oh let's see...all the time...then after you've become a thing - for pete's sake don't talk about it though, don't ask her if you're a thing, or have boring conversations about it - after a year or so of this, don't even propose to her, just set a date and get married on the beach somewhere. I mean you can tell her about it, don't like surprise her on the beach with a minister or anything dumb like that, but if she balks ahead of time just say "You don't want to get married?" with a slightly arched brow in the same exact tone you'd say "You don't want to go to the beach?" and she'll say "Well I didn't say that" and hook, line, sinker.