Whoa, these comments were really helpful.
I haven’t done any form checks or coaching. I’m working on my form by reading the book which I’m working through and obviously missed the part about how to choose you starting weight. Looking for that part right now, in case anyone wants to shout out the page number. Also watching videos (e.g. Alan Thrall) and will record my sets with the correct video angles ASAP to post on the forum.
I don’t think I quit on the lifts. My squat reps will often take 4-5 seconds. Bench is similar. Press and dead less so. Also, I was never a “bencher” before starting SSLP, just bodyweight stuff for the last 3 years.
I’ll do what everyone has suggested and find the right starting weight for each lift. This is what I thought I did already but my form is probably worse than I think and I must have started too high on bench, squat, and maybe the other lifts. It definitely feels like my form starts to break down esp on squat and bench on my work sets. It’s kind of a catch 22 though because if your form isn’t good then you can’t determine the right starting weights and you can’t post form videos of just warm up sets.