The First Three Questions | Mark Rippetoe
One does not. One adds weight to the upper body exercise of the day 3x/week. Upper body exercises do not get strong that fast because they are limited by the smaller muscle mass of the muscle groups that bottleneck the progress, and this is precisely why we alternate the exercises. Note that the OP went from 138x5 to 223x3 on his bench and from 88x5 to 146x3 on his press in 5 months. During that time, his squat went from 154x5 to 341x5. This is
very good normal progress for a NLP. The only problems I see here might have to do with the First Three Questions, but maybe not. They may simply reflect impatience, which is understandable in a motivated lifter.