Working away from home and needing to use the commercial gyms around the country, I've been seeing a lot of what you guys talk about!
I was bench pressing in one gyms only squat cage yesterday, (after I'd been squating in it, gym full of people just dumbelling and running on machines so I didn't mind hogging it) using the safeties as I was going for my PR and a kid came up to me and asked if I wanted a spot. I said no thanks, that's what the safeties are for and of I can't lift it by myself then it's not my lift. He went back to helping his mates bench press by curling it up for him.....