Originally Posted by
spar
Why in these conversations is there always someone who sets this up as though, if you keep some extra bodyfat for the purposes of maintaining an anabolic environment, this means you don’t give a shit about how you look? Can we please just stop with this false dichotomy and come from the assumption that people who respect themselves can still look at a little extra fluff on the mirror without turning away from themselves in horror? This is just as bad as bashing people for wanting to be lean.
Wanting to be lean is fine, but there are some points in one’s training when trying to stay lean will get in the way. Being a little fluffy is fine, too, and good for putting on strength and muscle, but it’s not a requirement to be fluffy to be considered strong.
I find that men grossly overestimate the extent to which pussy responds to muscles. I think strength is a great pursuit for many, many reasons, and every human being should strive to be stronger. And if getting more pussy is one motivation for it, then great. But a lot of guys need to tone down their expectations for what bigger muscles will do for them in the pussy department and think for a minute about why it actually works for those men it works for. Because men who have thought processes simple enough to assume that muscle will solve all their problems in the pussy department tend to have overall thought processes that kind of creep women out.
If the OP or anyone else wants to think he looks totally respectable at 22%, then can we stop acting as though they are in danger of becoming hideous specimens of humanity whom the dogs will bark at in the street? If that guy is smart, clean, interesting, and has some social skills, he can get some pussy, I promise. And if he’s strong, he can lift the barbell. 22% bodyfat does not make anyone useless or a pariah.