I said to re-read and understand every word if your really care that much. If you did so, you would have seen the phrase " The bar does work on you and you dissipate the vast majority of the energy it transfers to you (because you are much less useful than a spring)" Note the word majority dissipated because I was taking into account the stretch reflex.
The work done by the the bar and by the lifter do not correlate. This can be illustrated by the fact that a lifter benching the bar 3 ft expends a different amount of energy than the same lifter squating the bar 3 ft, yet the work done by the bar can remains the same (assuming the bar moves at the same speeds during the lifts). This is a result of different muscle efficiency, movement efficiency (leverage) and factors I am not aware of.
Introducing your new criteria of similar lifter, similar training, similar rest, similar "lift form", sure maybe you get similar results. This does not constrain a relationship between the work done by the bar and the work expended by the apparatus moving the bar.
Smack-down if you must
I'm not a douche nor am I acting like one. Pretty sure this forum is a pretty straight forward talking one.
People that talk about entropy outside of the appropriate environments mostly do it to sound smart. I found it annoying and said so.