Originally Posted by
Mark Rippetoe
First, we are not the BBB.
Second, the only reason I posted this is because I don't think the meet director owes you a refund, at all. When you enter a meet and you don't go to the meet, they still hold the meet. They still have expenses, and they still spent the same time holding it and the same money paying for it whether you're there or not. The goddamn aggravating things are expensive to hold, and the vast majority of them lose money. In essence, he agreed to hold the meet, and you agreed that it was worth paying him to participate if he held it. Had he cancelled the meet, he would owe you. But you didn't go, and why doesn't matter. Sorry about your knee, but welcome to the world of competitive sports. These things happen. Be more careful next time.
The only mistake he made was agreeing to send you a check. He fucked up here, and he owes you an apology for telling you that, and he might even morally owe you the money for telling you that. But he doesn't morally owe you the money for missing the meet.