Dude, I'm 64. I don't know your history but I've been lifting on and off (mostly on) since high school. You can get stronger with dumbbells, just not a lot stronger. With all due respect to the woman you love, perhaps a black iron gym membership is an easier sell to her. I had the good fortune to woo and win a woman who was a multi-sport by-God athlete some 37+ years ago, so I never encountered your own difficulties. Your selling point might just be years of added life to live with her and years that she won't have to wheel you around and change your Depends.
A wall rack?? Mounted to a wall??? When have I ever recommended anything other than a free-standing power rack?
You have no more read the book than I have read The Brothers Karamazov.
Thank you, Wal. I intend to go as far as the dumbbells can take me for now with barbell as my next step up the ladder. If I max out the 50 lb dumbbells, I will be confident enough that I won't be wasting my investment for the home barbell gym. My den wall is filled with electric guitars, but I'll move some of them for a wall rack if I succeed at the dumbbell step. Most of my workout is pretty safe for training alone, but the bench presses do create a little anxiety.
Re-read the highlighted portions of this. Think about the difference between your prized possessions and your potential physical well being. Then re-think what I said about coffin lids. Positive incentives when seriously given some intelligent contemplation can almost always overcome anxiety. Besides, the safety rails of racks overcome anxiety quite adequately.
Keb mate you do not need a home gym, just a bar and a few plates, however if you are going to bench alone you need to have an escape plan. Also Mark seems to have the impression that you have not read his book "Starting Strength Basic Barbell Training", it is the base from which to start from, so if you have not read it yet, might be time to do so.
One more thing sell some of those guitars and buy the stuff you need.
My GOD, man, you seem to think that working at about 10% of your capacity is a laudable achievement. You have no idea of the potential of this program, properly applied, because you have not done it. You can do it, but you have chosen not to read about how, and you're on this board bragging about an increase in strength in 5 weeks that many others with far less potential than you have accomplished in one workout. We're happy that you're trying, but you're not trying very hard.