Originally Posted by
Ray Gillenwater
Here's a summary of what others have said along with my own input, in an order that I recommend following. The idea is to remove a drug that might be causing the problem before adding new ones or increasing the dose of others.
Step 1: Get off of Finasteride to see if you get back to normal, it's well known to kill boners
Step 2: Get on more T, as Rip suggested, especially if you have high estrogen symptoms (sensitive nipples, water retention, moodiness)
Step 3: Try daily Cialis - if you get heart burn, lower the dose
Step 4: If you have an enlarged prostate (peeing multiple times per night, trouble emptying your bladder, weak stream) try flomax - it helps with that and wood strength - lots of guys stack this purely for bedroom performance
If your free test is at 40ng/dl+, you're on daily Cialis and flomax, and you're not on Finasteride, you should be performing like a college kid.
This level of performance should help you get over any anxiety. If you still have trouble, hire a sex therapist, ideally a tantric one.
Lastly, don't settle for women that lack enthusiasm or don't spend as much time taking care of themselves as you do. If the dating pool is that weak near you, you may need to start traveling and/or picking up new hobbies. If you can't attract the caliber of woman that excites you, you may need to invest in making yourself more desirable - and I'm not referring to aesthetics.