Oh my goodness Nockian, it sounds like boarshead had a really terrible experience. I would never dispute his suggestion to hold off on lifting, but thought I’d mention that this is what you get when you go to the internet prior to a surgery. You hear the worst stories ever!! Stay positive!!!
I did the same things years ago prior to a surgery and wound up telling the anesthesiologist that I didn’t want to wake up in a pool of my own blood! Because I read a few posts by people who had, among the hundreds of other posts that I read. Anyhow, the anesthesiologist gave me great advice, to stay away from the internet prior to surgeries! Lol!