Ya, I think that your thinking is in the right direction.....although it is difficult to plan everything out to the letter ahead of time. Have a plan, but be smart enough to know when to be flexible. On the recovery.....I have a 3 and 4 year old......those baby nights are still fresh in my head. It gets better soon......until they learn how to climb out of their cribs......then another cycle of misery for a while.