Originally Posted by
SarahBeth
LOL, that's so funny she dominated her friends in wrestling! I have a very small frame and was very thin (115-125# at 5'6") until I had my baby and gained 60#. I lost about half of it, but am still fairly thin. I have gained some weight since getting stronger, but I think most of it is muscle slowly replacing the baby fat. I wish I had started weight training earlier, since it's harder to make gains now that I have adult responsibilities and poor recovery. There is so much pressure for girls her age to be as small as possible, which drives girls and women to excessive cardio, dieting, and disordered eating patterns. I wish every girl would take up strength training to be all-around better at sports and life, but most are too scared that they'll get big and bulky. I am actually trying to bulk up and it's so hard, haha! I guess I'm saying that if she's worried about it, you can show her my videos to prove that you don't get really bulky by lifting weights, but it sounds like she is very well-adjusted!