You have probably said this already but at your age why are you not able to get more sleep? For that matter, how will you be able to make gains with such little sleep? In NJ there are SS coaches nearby. Maybe one of them can get you organized.
I see that you do or have worked with Adam. That's good. I also reread you commuting insanity. Have you thought about a change in lifestyle? Someday we are going to be dead and all of that pressure you are under now won't mean anything. Just a thought.