Don't worry about the unbroken program bit! That really never happens. I've talked to some SS coaches and even they say an LP can get extended for more than a year because life happens. Mine has had plenty of blips in training, it's just knowing how to pick up where you left off. Usually you just take 5%-10% off the bar depending on how many workouts you missed, and work your way back up.
Martha's been in this a lot longer than I have, so I'll just second everything she wrote.
Muscles get built during the recovery period. ;-). It might not actually hurt you to miss a work-out when life happens, so don't stress yourself out. Just stick with it. You're doing well.
22 August
Squat 3x5 90 lbs
Press 3x5 45 lbs
DL 1x5 120 lbs
Great progress!
I struggled a bit with the placement of the bar in the squat at first too (I blame StrongLifts). The way I find the right spot is, with the bar on the rack, get my shoulders/hands in the right position with the bar clearly too low on my back and then slide my body down until I feel the bar "click" on the shelf of the delts.
I haven't posted in a long time, but I am still here! I've had several stops and starts, and also discovered that I will never have 12 solid weeks of Doing The Program(tm) without hitting a few hiccups, but here are my numbers as of right now:
Squat 5x3 165
DL 5x3 165
Bench 5x3 110
Press 5x3 75
Welcome back! It's nice to see another woman novice. I'm impressed, like everyone else, that you're hitting the gym while you have a newborn. Cut yourself some slack when life gets in the way, after all, you're in it for the long haul, right?
I just started Feb 20 and the bar position is the only thing about the squat that is actually feeling comfortable for me.
When you're doing your warmups, your shoulders haven't loosened up yet. It is ok to let your hands be far apart, even all the way out by the plates. Just squeeze your shoulder blades together hard and get under the bar. Then push your elbows back and feel where your arms start to lift the bar up. Wiggle it a little, pushing your elbows back and letting them come down a little bit a few times to find that sweet spot where your arms are helping to solidly support the bar but not pushing it too high. Shoulder blades stay tight together the whole time, to protect your spine.
With each warmup set, you will usually find that your hands can move a bit closer together. By the time you are doing your work sets all the slack will be out and your arms and shoulders will be nice a snug and tight. It all starts with pulling those shoulder blades in hard.
I LIIIIIIVE! Ahem. Well, I am 4 months pregnant. I haven't lifted at all since I found out, but today I decided to start back. During my last pregnancy, I pretty much just sat on my ass for 9 months; I had a very difficult delivery and was also fat and badly out of shape after the birth. So this time I think I am going to try and train for as long as I can during the pregnancy (albeit of course at a very gentle pace), in the hopes that having extra muscle will make the delivery easier and maybe speed along the recovery time after the birth so that I don't emerge from the hospital looking like a fat pudgy snowman like last time.
So here are today's numbers:
Squat 3x5 65lb
Press 3x5 45lb
DL 1x5 95lb
I did a pretty drastic deload from what I was doing before, since I'm now pregnant plus haven't touched a barbell in 4 months. I'm in no hurry really, so I'll probably take it pretty conservatively.