Have you read Practical Programming? If not, it is worth the purchase. Novice programming and modifications are laid out in much greater detail than SS:BBT.
Sets across is going to be a more potent training stimulus than ramped. The volume is the same but the average intensity and tonnage are greater which gives you a more effective training effect. Ramped is good for managing fatigue at higher volume and when time is a factor down the road, but not yet. For a novice 3x5 for sets across has proven to be the most effective dose. More is too much. Less is too little.
I know you are not going to approach it that way anymore, but lets take the example from your press, because it illustrates the point looking solely at programming outside of any other considerations. My press (and most of my other lifts) is admittedly shit right now, but I feel like I have a fairly good handle on novice-level programming, so please take this as friendly advise and not criticism.:
On 7/14:
1x5x100 lb
1x5x105 lb
1x5x110 lb
Volume: 15
Peak Intensity: 110
Average Intensity: 105
Tonnage: 1575
You missed the next attempted 3x5 with 115, only getting 4 on the last set. Then you took the 5lb. jump anyway and missed with 120 in a similar manner, then missed with 125. If you fail to make a given weight for the prescribed sets and reps, do not go up. You will get stuck that way.
100, 105, 110 might be enough to take you to 105, 110, 115 the next workout, but maybe not 3x5 of 115.
3x5x110 would have been:
Volume: 15
Peak Intensity: 110
Average Intensity: 110
Tonnage: 1650
Not huge at these weights, but heavier weights or bigger jumps between ramped sets will magnify the difference in average intensity and tonnage.
Something also tells me from some of your log entries you might be doing too many reps on your warm-ups. This might be helpful: How To Properly Warm Up - YouTube
Hope this makes some sense and helps you out!