Nope, "told ya" is not my thing. We're all figuring this out. It wasn't a "bad day," but a under-recovered day for only the deadlift, as the bench was very strong.
Since you did your PR Deadlift on Friday, just four days ago, you haven't had enough time to recover. That frequency puts you back in BBRx Program 1B: Early Novice (pg 188), which you clearly aren't. Even Program 1C: Novice (pg 188) puts the frequency at every nine days, as does Program 1D: Advanced Novice (Pg 193). Even moving into HLM or other Intermediate programming has it once every 7 days. The shaking/tremors makes perfect sense today since you weren't recovered. So recover and move forward. That means Option 1. Don't throw this session out and reset, whatever you do (your Option 2).
After Friday's PR Deadlift, the thing to have done would have shifted your schedule around to move your next heavy deadlift to late this week or early next week (7-9 days after that session) and programmed lighter pulling between the two. That's probably what you have going for the rest of this week headed into next week's programmed heavy deadlift. So instead of 235lbs for that one, crush your 232.5x3x3.
As far as rack pulls, whatever. Sure, they seem to be getting a bunch of attention lately, which is good and bad. Good, because people are becoming aware of them, Bad because some will be doing them in lieu of heavy deadlifts when they can keep progressing those deadlifts. I fall into the "Bad" category, as I could and should be progressing my pull from the floor, but I also balanced where that stress and recovery fits in what I want to do outside the garage. Take your time and just know they are there when you get there. One under-recovered day does not mean that you are there.
Keep at it!