Do you know the width of your deadlift belt??? If you're using a 4 inch wide belt, that could be the culprit.
Do you know the width of your deadlift belt??? If you're using a 4 inch wide belt, that could be the culprit.
Show us a video with you demonstrating volitional control of your low back. Standing up is fine.
This is not a muscle weakness problem; it is a "I'm a male and this isn't a skill I'm naturally good at" problem.
I have similar issues as the OP when the weights get heavier, however I do know how to control my lower back, following Rip's cues. How else would you prevent your lower back from rounding if weakness isn't the issue? I have no problem when squats get heavy, but it's only conventional deadlifts that's screwing me up.
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