It took 3 years, gaining weight from 165 to 215 lbs.
My first miss: Nov 26:
missed 200 lb press - YouTube
I felt lightheaded and just needed another second to grind, but I feared for passing out.
I was hitting 180 lbs for doubles, and thought I should be able to hit this lift
180 lb warm up:
warm up 180 lb press - YouTube
A few weeks later I tried again, and missed:
missed 200 lb press - YouTube
I took a six minute rest and watched the video, noticed that i was under the bar for about 7 seconds. As I was getting lightheaded again, I realized i needed to just be a little quicker after unracking the bar so I wouldn't get lightheaded so much. Also brought my grip in slightly, and cued myself to look at the sticker i had put on the mirror as a focus point.
and got it!
200 lb press; new PR! - YouTube
Much thanks for the video by emily and diego; i watched this about a month ago to fine tune my form:
Common Press Mistakes and How to Fix Them with Diego and Emily Socolinsky - YouTube
Honestly, i probably need just a bit more work on keeping my knees stiff and bending at the waist more.