As I said, which is more common in gyms, lack of confidence to push hard, or low hormones?
Many things smell like strawberries, but if I'm in a field of strawberries with my eyes closed, I think it's fair for me to guess what's making that nice smell. Most gyms are places of low confidence. When you spend a lot of time at places like Eastside S&C it's going to be easy to forget where the typical person "doing SS" lifts.