Originally Posted by
Nick Delgadillo
This is semantic argument. But the important question is: how do you train for "self defense" without learning to fight? Self defense is application of fighting skills with the goal of winning in the context of a fight you didn't agree to be a part of. But learning and practicing violence requires serious skill in basic fighting systems like BJJ, boxing, and wrestling - even for people who's primary means of self protection is a gun or knife. In the absence of learning how to effectively hit and wrestle with someone, a "self defense practitioner" is just pretending using imaginary opponents and scenarios. This is the domain of all the super deadly self defense focused martial arts guys who don't actually know how to fight and think their pretend ninja shit will dazzle and overwhelm their opponents in back alleys and sketchy bars.