Gentlemen, I can't thank all of you enough for your encouragement here. I try to do the same and I don't do it because I expect something back, but because I hope it inspires. You know what? It really does inspire. A good thing to remember for all of us with respect to others. Youse guys are great!
OK, now that I'm basking in the glow of satisfaction from this it's time for the trials and tribulations we older guys face from time to time. My lower back has been giving me trouble the last day or so and I pep talked myself into the dojo this morning. Probably not my smartest move, but I haven't been on the mat all week and I was having withdrawal symptoms. I asked Master Bellman if I could forgo falling drills and he said no problem. As we proceeded through warmups he pulled me off the mat and had one of the women black belts start working over my back. We learn massage techniques as ikkyus, the last brown belt rank before black belt, but she is known as being particularly good at them. I can attest that she has incredibly sharp pointy elbows that she nailed me with around the lower back and upper pelvis. I have a pretty high threshold of pain, but she had me groaning and sweating with a red face. All my clothes were on too, so don't get any wrong ideas here!
When he split the class he had me teaching the teens. One kid was the same one I worked with last week about 13-14 and a 1st degree blue belt and a slightly smaller, younger blue belt. This was a very valuable lesson for me in teaching and class management on a couple of fronts. The younger kid is a little lazy and shy and is almost certainly being raised by a single mom and her father. He was having a hard time in the session and was getting more shaky and a little weepy as things went on. I realized belatedly that the older kid's "help" and "advice" was getting in his head. So I told the older one that he needed to let me teach the class and listen. To be clear, this was not about my ego, it was about being sure the younger kid was getting something useful from the session.
The really big "Ah, ha!" happened when an adult purple belt came in late and got incorporated into the kid's group. The younger kid started to turn around soon after. He even perked up to the point that he smiled and laughed a couple of times as the session went on. I have heard about the changes in group dynamics that another person can make since the 60's when I was in college. I've seen the shit heads drag things down a lot in academic and classes of all other kinds, including the martial arts. This is the first time I have seen the reverse take place. As soon as the younger kid had another person to work with he started to improve too, and very impressively.