Example:
I misremembered Rip's advice on Few brand whiskey and bought the bourbon instead of the rye. I (aggressively) ripped up the receipt before revisiting the AskRip episode and realizing my mistake. My wife's psychological approach to the error was to berate my decision to purchase things because some guy on the internet suggested it.
I think her aggression would be put to good use in a deadlift ("my back gets sore from [English] riding lessons"), but she doesn't want to be "pressured" into working out. I have yet to find the right carrot. Things that don't work: impulse buying the wrong whiskey [check].