
Originally Posted by
Jason Donaldson
You're absolutely right, Austrian, on the necessity of shared values - I would put it in terms of worldview: a society cannot cohere without a significantly shared worldview. This doesn't mean a total unity of all beliefs and preferences, but certainly compatibility of basic ones. With a shared basic worldview, a great deal of diversity on other things can work, especially so long as groups are allowed their own enclaves to go home to, where they can share those secondary social traits in peace, instead of an attempt to grind everyone into a sickly, grey paste of bland uniformity.
Rip beat me to it on this point. Western civilization for quite some time and not that long ago was much more closely aligned in worldview to varying degrees, and prospered accordingly. In many ways, that very prosperity laid the ground for the declines we're seeing now.
As to the "dirty jobs" point, this is not at all specific to current western societies. Throughout human history such perceptions have been present almost universally across cultures. Most of the time, these jobs have been largely relegated to slaves in function, if not in name. (And it was western society, largely under Christian influence, that was the first in history to officially abolish slavery on a large scale, even though functional slavery has continued to operate in more clandestine forms...) When outright slavery was not the major source, it was caste, class, race, or some other such delineation.
People are generally quick to have someone else do the scut work, so long as there is a "someone else" available. It's a behavior that conscientious parenting works hard to root out. Perhaps, if we dry up the current supply of the "others" to do it, we'll see a cultural return to ideas like the dignity of work, instead of the assumption that lots of necessary tasks are somehow demeaning. We can hope...
As far as the "need" to have both parents working outside the home, there are more and more households (at least in the US) who are successfully questioning the underlying assumptions of this. That questioning is (properly) directed at that very telling phrase, "to sustain a normal life..." Being willing to question that can be quite liberating.
I whole-heartedly agree with the incompatibility of Islam and western cultures - both the older kind and the newer. With respect to its founder and its foundational documents, Christianity inherently acknowledges a dichotomy between religion and both society and government. To secularism, religion is not generally to be considered at all with regards to society and government, or at least relegated to the private sphere. Islam, however, is inherently theocratic, seeking to establish and mold society according to the dictates of its founder and its foundational documents. Since western culture was previously highly christianized, and is now far more secularized, this puts it and Islam at fundamental and irreconcilable disagreements.