My general consensus is that the general trends across large populations of an increased intake of a certain nutrient is not particularly relevant. What's relevant is that you need more muscle mass.
It's fun to poke through all the studies, but there is no general consensus. Traditional (since the 70s) recommendations were to lower saturated fats. Later studies have called this into question.
Just drink the milk and tend to your n=1 health, and get your deadlift up.