I'd venture with option 2 or 3. You will have a full week to recover regardless, which should be more than enough time for recovery.
How do you normally recover from heavy deadlifts?
For me, I could probably shoot for the 3rm and still be good to go for another PR pull by that coming wednesday, but that is just me. You are a bit more advanced in terms of progression than I am, which probably plays into it all, but given that you will have a full week inbetween it really shouldnt matter.