"No, seriously, where'd you put it?" Oh man, what a warm way to end a brutal set.
Personally, I've found that too wide of a stance kills my bounce out of the hole. I'd been using a stance wider than shoulders for a while, but in my last workout I tried narrower than I've ever gone. The bounce came easily then. Not sure if this will be the same for you, but there always has to be some experimentation before you find the right form.