I've never seen someone isn't a genetic freak and or has no lifting background whatsoever, legitimately start their squat with 205x5. Especially someone weighing only 165. So I'm going to go ahead and guess your squat is high, and/or otherwise needs work. A 155x5 bench is pretty good too, again with no workout experience, starting with a bench press solidly over bodyweight is unusual, though not quite as unusual as the squat. Then there's your lifts: you squat every session, and it has a higher capacity for gains than the upper body lifts, but have only added 40 lbs in the same 2.5 months that you've added 35 to your bench, meanwhile only adding 15 to your press. Something is definitely up, and it's not just your BF.