Your bar path won't be perfectly vertical in the bench, so don't flare your elbows to try to get it vertical if you love your shoulders.
Same answer as in your squat post!1. Should I repeat 195 x 5 x 3 on Friday and make sure I get it with the good form before moving forward or should I move onto 200 x 5 x 3? Either way, I am going to use the tighter and more controlled form from now on.